Start out slow and watch for his reaction. If you’re game, slip a finger in this ass. Getting into the act – Role play is a fun way to explore new bounds to your relationship. And the possibilities are unlimited – teacher/student, prison matron/inmate, Cleopatra/slave, policewoman/burglar, etc. Getting busy – All this foreplay will usually lead to sex.
(See consequences below) And then chose the position that you like best. You don’t have to be “on top,” to be on top of the action. Require him to wear a butt plug 24/7 for a weekĪbove all, do what you like.Tell him how you want it, slow or fast, soft or hard.Ĭonsequences – When you mate loses control before you’re ready, there must be consequences. If you want to dominate your man in the bedroom, sexual control is the most basic requirement. This fantasy is about giving you all the sexual power, so your pleasure must come first.